Discussing Fantasies: Should You Share Them With Your Partner?

In this episode, we explore whether or not you should share fantasies with your partner, particularly those that involve someone else. We discuss the potential emotional impact and the importance of maintaining a respectful and kind relationship. Additionally, we touch upon the story of Noah from the Bible, examining the idea that one's internal thoughts and fantasies don't define their moral actions. Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on intimacy, honesty, and maintaining a strong relationship with Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman 00:00 Introduction: Should You Share Your Fantasies? 00:08 The Pain of Fantasizing About Others 01:01 The Importance of Sharing What Turns You On 01:28 Calling Out the Wrong Name During Sex 01:55 Reflecting on Why You Called Out the Wrong Name 03:19 The Story of Noah and Moral Behavior 04:58 Internal Fantasies vs. External Actions 05:27 Conclusion: The Wisdom of the Jewish Sages **Disclaimer:** The content on this channel is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. Watching these videos does not establish a therapist-client relationship. If you're in crisis, seek help from a licensed professional or emergency services.